I think given dinner or something like. You just have to do. That as a military spouse. Something that is I buy kind of difficult compared to the civilian world is that. You don't like. Somebody it still got a smile and be cordial. You can call. It fake you know. You have to just put on that smile go shake. Some hands have. Some small talk or yes but I mean I'm pretty sure just about every spouse has done. That at least. You can't let face your husband make I've told. You about people. That work you know get in the way.
You see them you know just got a smile yeah so that's what I want. You all to remember. Because basically. You in them in the military world as a wife. You are a reflection of your husband so. You can't go around speeding on base. Because that's a little bad for him you can the ticket is him getting a ticket basically. You all are seeing as. One really like seriously my husband is always like babe don't get into a scuffle don't go cuss no money out I'm gonna fight. Nobody I'm gonna do. That you know. You just got to be on your own you're told. You know you can't be doing those type of things. Because you honestly can get your husband in trouble my biggest thing as far as. What it's like. You know it can be lonely. It can be lonely at times it's like. You know they could be on call like there have been times. He had to go to work on a weekend or you know. He made sometimes work seven days a week and not hit.
Any days off a lot of times. It feels like. I don't get to spend as much time with him anymore. You know especially with his having a baby. Now a lot of my time goes her so. He is home I'm kind of preoccupied so. You do have to learn. That you have to find the balance a lot as far as for me I had to take on a lot of responsibilities for our daughter like it's not like oh. You can feed her and he can bathe her all the time. Because sometimes. He may not be here for those moments um like. He really has to be just flexible let's hold like. I can't say. That enough. Because for example we've only been stationed at one place but they're going to be times. You have to up and move and say your husband is going up for promotion or he has a board or he has a test.
You have to be flexible. Yet to be accommodating and you have to just be very very supportive so the biggest thing I can think of is flexibility support them accommodating which is basically flexibility but I mean. These are the these are the mindsets espouses. That active duty. You know military members need at home. Because that's just the best way for it to be and what I would say is for you all to try to find a balance. You know basically your spouse should still keep. You happy but you should keep them happy as well so. You know keep the house clean. You know do things for them like for example for my husband. I know work can be stressful. It is a lot of him. Because we only have. One income essentially taking care of the whole family of our household so for me my job is to basically take care of him he can't care the bus and I take care of him so. I cook him lunch for the week. I do things like.
That I try to keep our house clean. I wash his uniforms and all his gear. That he's needs. You know it's simple things. You just got to be supportive be very supportive of your spouse it's kind of hard since sometimes put yourself in that spot and understand. What they have to go through and what they have to deal with on a daily basis and the things sometimes. They can't tell. You things sometimes. They just cannot say. What it is that's going on at work or you know OPSEC operation security. That is definitely part of being a military spouse is very. You have to be understanding you have to be in standing for me I had went through a deployment. Yet I'm not looking forward to it I'm gonna be honest I'm really not. I know I'm gonna miss the heck out of my husband like. He is my best friend. He is my go-to. You know you he's my person. You watch grated Anatomy. You know what I'm saying he's my person and I don't know what I'm gonna do he's deployed or whatever the case may be but I understand.
That that means. I may have to go through and I'm going to support him I'm going to support our family and I'm gonna do. What I need to do to get. It done so you all enjoyed. This video you had. Any questions concerns things. You want to know I'm going to do. Some more videos related to being a military spouse things. That you all may ask. Me you know previous videos. One of the biggest things is how. We got married at basic military training so. I will do a separate video on just. That so I will do. That video soon and I hope. That you all are having a wonderful day like. I said don't forget to Like comment and subscribe and I'll see. You again in my next. One love you bye.
You see them you know just got a smile yeah so that's what I want. You all to remember. Because basically. You in them in the military world as a wife. You are a reflection of your husband so. You can't go around speeding on base. Because that's a little bad for him you can the ticket is him getting a ticket basically. You all are seeing as. One really like seriously my husband is always like babe don't get into a scuffle don't go cuss no money out I'm gonna fight. Nobody I'm gonna do. That you know. You just got to be on your own you're told. You know you can't be doing those type of things. Because you honestly can get your husband in trouble my biggest thing as far as. What it's like. You know it can be lonely. It can be lonely at times it's like. You know they could be on call like there have been times. He had to go to work on a weekend or you know. He made sometimes work seven days a week and not hit.
Any days off a lot of times. It feels like. I don't get to spend as much time with him anymore. You know especially with his having a baby. Now a lot of my time goes her so. He is home I'm kind of preoccupied so. You do have to learn. That you have to find the balance a lot as far as for me I had to take on a lot of responsibilities for our daughter like it's not like oh. You can feed her and he can bathe her all the time. Because sometimes. He may not be here for those moments um like. He really has to be just flexible let's hold like. I can't say. That enough. Because for example we've only been stationed at one place but they're going to be times. You have to up and move and say your husband is going up for promotion or he has a board or he has a test.
You have to be flexible. Yet to be accommodating and you have to just be very very supportive so the biggest thing I can think of is flexibility support them accommodating which is basically flexibility but I mean. These are the these are the mindsets espouses. That active duty. You know military members need at home. Because that's just the best way for it to be and what I would say is for you all to try to find a balance. You know basically your spouse should still keep. You happy but you should keep them happy as well so. You know keep the house clean. You know do things for them like for example for my husband. I know work can be stressful. It is a lot of him. Because we only have. One income essentially taking care of the whole family of our household so for me my job is to basically take care of him he can't care the bus and I take care of him so. I cook him lunch for the week. I do things like.
That I try to keep our house clean. I wash his uniforms and all his gear. That he's needs. You know it's simple things. You just got to be supportive be very supportive of your spouse it's kind of hard since sometimes put yourself in that spot and understand. What they have to go through and what they have to deal with on a daily basis and the things sometimes. They can't tell. You things sometimes. They just cannot say. What it is that's going on at work or you know OPSEC operation security. That is definitely part of being a military spouse is very. You have to be understanding you have to be in standing for me I had went through a deployment. Yet I'm not looking forward to it I'm gonna be honest I'm really not. I know I'm gonna miss the heck out of my husband like. He is my best friend. He is my go-to. You know you he's my person. You watch grated Anatomy. You know what I'm saying he's my person and I don't know what I'm gonna do he's deployed or whatever the case may be but I understand.
That that means. I may have to go through and I'm going to support him I'm going to support our family and I'm gonna do. What I need to do to get. It done so you all enjoyed. This video you had. Any questions concerns things. You want to know I'm going to do. Some more videos related to being a military spouse things. That you all may ask. Me you know previous videos. One of the biggest things is how. We got married at basic military training so. I will do a separate video on just. That so I will do. That video soon and I hope. That you all are having a wonderful day like. I said don't forget to Like comment and subscribe and I'll see. You again in my next. One love you bye.
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