Friday, October 4, 2019

LIFE AS A MILITARY SPOUSE! 1

Hey let's lavish. It brick and I'm deck y'all I'm bet but I did a military spouse for almost two years. I can't believe to use as basically flown by. This is basically a video to let. You all know what it's like being a military wife. Because I know as far as. He told me it was joining and all this kinda like. What was it like to be a military spouse. You know from.

What you see in movies and stuff kind of like who's gonna be sad they're going to pull. It all the time. You know I'm gonna miss. You you're going to be ever ever ever disclaimer. That could be the case for some military wives so for me my experience at being a military spouse has been. What I would say it's been good. You know I can't complain about anything you know. He goes to work and he comes home. He comes home safely and I don't have. Any worries so that's a big thing for me you know. Because I was thinking like oh he's joining the military oh my gosh.

You know you had. These preconceived thoughts. That are oftentimes wrong especially depends on their career field in my husband's career fear doesn't require. You to be shot at at least sorry. He gets deployed possibly but no so I'm good on that part but one of the things. I want to stress to military spouses or if. You are about to become a military spouse it's that the number. One thing you have to be very very conscious of is that you have to be flexible. Because there is a difference between the military lifestyle and the civilian lifestyle and what I mean by. That is for example.

When my husband. She has to be to work there's no calling in saying oh I'll be late or calling at my. Everything has to be documented there's no sick days. You know you win your spouse gets sick. They have to go to basically the hospital or I think it's called sick call and basically. They have to get. What is called quarters quarters is basically. Where your quarantine. You know they basically get those days off from work to heal and get better and then go back to work so yummy there are times a lot of times. They can be. All call so. You may have plans those plans may not always work so being flexible and the military spouse is the number.

One thing there are times. Where just like. You can't you can't schedule things way way out in advance and that can kind of hinder like a time to know like planning vacations and things. Because you never know what's going to be going on with their mission at that time just keep. That like flexibility is the number number. One thing you need to be as a spouse. They deal with military. Because for example my husband has to be at work at 6:45 and gets off at 4:00 pm there's no I'll go in at 10:00 and then instead. I get off at 7:00 no. He doesn't make those changes his supervisors will make. That change. If that's what they need for the day.

 Because that's its regular schedule hours but there are times. They may not need him during those hours so. They sailed him hey. You could come in earlier so then the time sees linens to work in like 3:00 am. This Muskaan since went in to work as late as like 5:00 Higgins and got off much much later so be flexible like I'm going to say. That probably a million thought for this video be flexible. Because this that's just. What you need to meet as a little things fast. You know a demonstrates out. You get to meet a lot of people a lot of poor people in the military special. You go to functions so. You have to be get up cool with doing those type of things and I am I'm going to support my husband on 110 percent. You know you know go above and beyond for my husband and I mean. He is so me up babe. You know they got a Christmas party.

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